SUBMISSIVE COURSE
So, what does this mean for webcam? In this course we are going to break down everything you need to know to begin to navigate the world of submission and how to make the most of out of each dominant client whilst staying in your personal power and staying safe online.
First things first lets break down the illusion and start with the basics…
Consent, Boundaries and Saftey.
In this introductory video I break down a few points such as – – The importance of consent and boundaries – The difference between fantasy and reality – Safety in submission on webcam
Kink Shaming
It’s important when working with any fetish or kink that we are able to separate our own boundaries from our judgement of another person. For example, you may not be comfortable with a client who wants to involve humiliation in the Dom/sub play – it is ok not to work with this client or to work with them as long as they respect your hard limit. However, it is not ok to shame the client or to judge them based on their sexual preferences.
Every client has a personal story, and for some this is the only place where they can feel safe and in control to carry out their fantasies. Just because someone is acting a certain way during a fantasy, doesn’t mean they act that way in real life. In fact many dominants on cam are people who may have experienced abuse, neglect or bullying and have felt out of control in their lives. Being dominant for some clients can give them back a sense of control for a short time, and as long as they are mindful of your safety and respectful with your boundaries then this should be a safe space for them to explore without judgement.
Submissive – the participant in a BDSM relationship or sexual encounter who is obedient, giving power and control to a dominant.
The Benefits of Being a Submissive Cam Girl
There are so many ways that tapping into this client group can be beneficial! As well as it being another bow to your arrow when it comes to your webcam skills, it can be a really fun way to build committed regulars and to have fun with this niche! Some key benefits of learning about being submissive on cam are:
– High paying regulars
– Easy cam sessions – the dom does all the thinking!
– The sessions can be long – subs can ask many questions and draw out conversations
– You can build your cam persona
– You have more to offer clients
– It’s fun to roleplay and be playful and creative!
Taboo and fantasy. The illusion of control.
Your webcam chat is a place where clients come to escape the reality of their daily lives. It is a place free from shame and discrimination where play and fantasy can be encouraged and facilitated.
Therefore it’s important to remember to respect your webcam clients, and to expect respect in return before creating an illusion of whatever relationship they’d like to play out. Watch this video for information on the illusion of control.
Types of Clients
Now you know the basics, it’s time to get to know your clients, what they like and how to get the most out of each one.
The next section includes explanations of the main 5 dominant webcam clients and how to work them, but remember – not every client will be a match for you and that’s ok. Don’t spend time trying to please every single client, if the energy isn’t right move on and make way for the next one – don’t force it, listen to your body and honour your energy, you got this!
Plastic Dom/ Wannabe
We start with this one because although this isn’t a proper dominant client, this can often be mistaken for one! The plastic dom is an unfortunate product of a broken society. Youll spot this client by his quick demands, refusal to listen and ego driven attitude. He may come into your chat and tell you to strip or perform a particular act without any intro or build up and with no idea about who you are and what you’re prepared to offer.
Plastic doms should be taken with a pinch of salt. Anyone who comes into your chat and demands something straight off the bat is not going to be a big spender. They wont become a regular who gets to know you and its unlikely they’ll respect your boundaries. You can play into the hands of these clients pretty easily but unless you can stay in your power and be playful with it, don’t spend too much energy trying to please them.
Master
This type of dominant client is someone who wants and expects total control. In this type of sub dom relationship the sub is referred to as the slave and will do anything to please their master and including sexual and non sexual tasks. As with every dom client remember to be aware of your limits here and if anything feels off or you’re not happy it’s ok to end the arrangement and move on. If you find a master who is respectful and you’re enjoying it, this can be a great regular client who you can learn to please so that they come back time and time again.
Trainer / Mentor
Watch this video all about the trainer/mentor type dominant, how to spot them and how to get the most out of sessions with these potential regulars.
The Switch
A switch is someone who enjoys power play and can switch between being submissive and dominant themselves. This type of client often enjoys role play and fantasies such as pretending to be a landlord, your boss or another character with a power imbalance. These clients can be fun, respectful and great regulars if you can get into character and enjoy the flow of conversation and/or play.
Tapping into the energy of the exchange is important when camming with someone who says they’re switch. You can ask questions like ‘what are you feeling in the mood for today?’ and ‘I wonder which of us will take control of this session?’. Watch our fantasy script writing video in the training video section of this website for more ideas – the more fantasies you have to memory the more you can drag out long and expensive cam sessions!
Parental Dom
This type of client is looking for a sub to care for who may also be sexually subservient. The sub here is often described as a ‘little’, but this doesn’t mean this role play is about age play necessarily, it’s more about the power imbalance and nurturing relationship. These doms are often caring towards their subs and like them to show that there is a bond between you. They will often take time to get to know you (remember the more details you can give about your make believe life, the more money you are earning and the more connected they will feel to you). Again, if you feel uncomfortable at any time remember you can end the chat or discontinue the relationship. However, its important to remember these clients are often just playing out their need to care and be cared for in tandem with their sexual desires – this is fantasy and nothing more.
Continued Sub Self Care!
This video outlines important ways to ensure you stay happy and safe whilst experimenting with your submissive side. Watch this and we wish you luck on this new journey!
Any further questions? Want to share your experiences with us? Drop your mentor a message, share in our WhatsApp group or get in touch with Georgia or Elle who will be happy to hear from you.
We hope you’re feeling fired up and ready to have some fun with a whole new set of clients!
